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Wednesday, August 29, 2007

I will remember you....



I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

Remember the good times that we had?
I let them slip away from us when things got bad
How clearly I first saw you smilin’ in the sun
Wanna feel your warmth upon me, I wanna be the one

I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

I’m so tired but I can’t sleep
Standin’ on the edge of something much too deep
It’s funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word
We are screaming inside, but we can’t be heard

But I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

I’m so afraid to love you, but more afraid to loose
Clinging to a past that doesn’t let me choose
Once there was a darkness, deep and endless night
You gave me everything you had, oh you gave me light

And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories

And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Weep not for the memories

---"I will rember you" by Sarah McLachan

Monday, August 27, 2007

Blogs for Dogs





This is an ice-breaker after 6 months or so...haven't written blogs off-late. Now I get my inspiration: Dogs

Yes Dogs. In my view, Dogs are in my top 5 best things that can happen to us, in a list headed by Great Health, Parents, Friends and Education (& hence Job) . I was around 4 years old when my parents gifted me a wonderful book about Animals and that book had a section dedicated to dogs specifically. Section which covered about basics of Dog breeding and their origin. Sections with awesome pictures of German Shepherds and the Magnificent Bull-dogs and the ever loyal Labradors & Golden Retrievers. That 1 simple book has the left the most long-lasting impression of my childhood. That book was like a job to me! Every morning along with Marie biscuits with the best tea prepared by the most graceful lady who walked the face of this Earth, my mother. And then during those morning breakfast times, I always asked my mom and dad to get me a dog......and they would just keep quiet. They never said "No" strongly. They never made fun of me or scolded me. They just kept quiet. And allowed time to dilute my wishful-thinking.

As time passed by, books & TV documentaries about Nature, Earth and World of animals came as a value addition to our lives. My father would take me to early morning walks and the building dogs & other stray dogs would chase us and try to play mischief. It was fun and a little scary to play around with those dogs; chasing them around, to be chased around, climbing on the top of water tank reservoir and teasing dogs 'cos they couldn't climb up!! I have always wondered why dogs are their peak energy during early morning hours......My father had this soft corner towards dogs and he passed that trait onto me. But being a middle-class family living in a fairly small apartment was always a major deterrent for us to own a dog from a pure-bloodline-reputable breed. It's not that we didn't like our Building dogs or Stray dogs, it's just that all those dogs were are all cross breed of some kind and then there was the uncertainty of inherent diseases passed on from unknown dogs, which is frequent in stray dogs. We never took that risk and I always had the hope of owning one pure breed or a genuine breed taken from a professional breeder. My main inspiration to own a dog came from one of my close cousins of Southern India who owned a gorgeous German Shepherd called "Dyna". To me, German Shepherd (also known as Alsatian OR GSD) is the King of Dogs: Highly Intelligent, Protective, Fearless, Playful, Strong and always Alert. I have read and heard that Alsatians love their owners to death. I wanted a dog as good as German Shepherd, but I was always nervous of them because of the fearful reviews about GSDs.

But as more time passed by, needs and priorities always kept that one desire at the bottom of the page. The desire to own a dog never faded away, it was always there at the bottom of the page till now. A few of my school friends had dogs and always talked about them and I always shared discussions with them with utmost sincerity. I never lost a chance to discuss new things about Dogs and increase the breath of Knowledge in that domain. After all, Dog becomes a part of family once it joins one and it's worth thinking about it.

A phase of life came when Dogs weren't a part of discussion anymore and more so because of the busy life of my hometown, Bombay. Things like Education, Jobs, Career etc overwhelmed the childhood desire. But I knew it was just a matter of time which could range from 5 to 10 to 15 years to 20...before I could own a Dog. And now that time has come. I am planning to own a Dog that will be great friend and loyal companion. Especially, after you lose your loved ones, something like this becomes a thought worth giving a consideration.

German Shepherd is no more on the top of my favorite list mainly because of the inherent aggressiveness & danger that could be imposed to surrounding people. GSDs are very protective and territorial and don't generally have the temperament of a cool Labrador or Golden Retriever or a Boxer or a Swiss Mountain Dog. If at all I manage to own a GSD, it will be one of the mildest tempered ones, which will require a lot of research on Professional GSD breeders. But Labs , Golden Retrievers, Swiss Mountain Dogs (Swissy) are by thumb-rule considered to be very good people-dogs...Affectionate, Patient, Playful, Energetic, Obedient and Courage: you name them and these breeds have 'em !!

Someday I will be fortunate to own two dogs...may be a Lab or a GSD or a Swissy..only time will tell if this will be true or not :)

Dogs forever!!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Social Discrimination: The main Evil in India

Recently there was an article about Human rights activists concerned about the lower strata of Hindu society, i.e., Dalits. It's truly shocking to know that even today this discrimination is prevalent. It brings a tear to many people's eyes that people are ill-treated, deprived and isolated from the normal society.

The point is: wipe out the "caste" distinction and stop it right now. Now . Everyone is same. Why ask silly & point-less questions like: "Ohh so you are a Brahmin?", "Are you from this caste?", bla bla bla..It's shocking to know that I have been living in USA for the past 2 years or so and still I have faced less discrimination in US than in our motherland. Is this what our country about? 21st century still cannot clear many minds in this developing country. When will people lose their brains from testicles and start using the real brain in their heads? When will the discrimination, nepotism, corruption and snobbish attitude give way to common-sense, logic, ethics, principles and honesty?

Education and a much more humane touch could be the only 2 solutions to sweep this Evil into non-existence.

Jai Hind if and only if:we act worthy as true Hindustanis.

Saturday, September 30, 2006

Being numb and dumb: Revision AA

Hello people! As I am writing this, I ponder upon the wonderful days of the past wherein some of us used to stay in touch with each other regularly. Days when we used to yap about anything & anyone, as if it was a normal routine of our system. Talks which we used to cherish, the discussions and phone calls which we used to make endlessly and friendly secrets that gave a childish flavor to us.

Now, as we "progress" ahead with our "tasks" in our lives, a lot of things occupy our minds..With the first quarter of our lives getting over in a heartbeat, we plan to make the next quarter the most fruitful part of our lives; not that the first quarter hasn't been special. Think about it: Successes, failures, friendships, relations, accomplishments,losses, accumulated memories, disasters around our world, wars, science & technology, funny moments and so many events have occured in our first quarter. Mathematically, the first quarter has left us with indeed infinite number of memories, experiences and lessons. It's like a gigantic solution space with lots of solutions in response to tons of problems which were encountered. Three cheers to the first quarter of our lives ! Everything is stored in the memory of our mind, however, only a part of it retained & absorbed. The rest of it doesn't get forgotten either, it just goes into a state of non-regular attention, which when left unattended might go into the state of "rarely used activity/action/observation".

As we grow, new events occupy this already populated mind and replace the existing events/solutions&problems with newer ones. Priorities change. Perceptions change. Attitudes change. The "library" of our mind grows and a lot of existing thoughts change the priority line with the new ones.

The surprising thing is that we don't even realize this, until we write a piece of crappy blog like this. I am suprised, at the same time a little numb, are you?

Monday, September 25, 2006

Bachpan ke dost-log !!

Some of our childhood friends hold a special place in lives. They bring a sense of nostalgia and delight. The same kind of delight when a child wins a snake & ladder game or when he/she successfully manages to get a mango from a tall tree or when a smart catch is made in hide & seek game ! About 15 years ago there was no internet access, cell phones were rare and even land-lines weren't that common. There have been some friends who have been lost for a long time. But now Internet has connected all of us so brilliantly ! Thanks to the internet, I was able to find one of such friends...It was simply great to see her back after so many years. All the school memories, those great teachers (some not so great !), those peons, those "bhel-walas", those great canteen vada pavs, those recess rings, pakda-pakdee games, science-quiz and numerous pranks :) will always have a special place in all our hearts 'cos they are so ineffably lovely. Hopefully long-lost friends will be found and once again become an integral part of our lives in some way or the other !

Cheers! :))

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

All by myself

When I was young
I never needed anyone
And makin love was just for fun
Those days are gone

Livin alone
I think of all the friends Ive known
But when I dial the telephone
Nobodys home

All by myself
Dont wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Dont wanna live
All by myself anymore

Hard to be sure
Some times I feel so insecure
And love so distant and obscure
Remains the cure

All by myself
Dont wanna be
All by myself anymore
All by myself
Dont wanna live
All by myself anymore

--ERIC CARMEN: GREAT SONG !

Sunday, May 28, 2006

The Unknown Fury

Nothing's as dangerous as Nature's fury. The recent Indonesian earthquake re-affirmed the dominance of THE FORCE, which can destroy anything, anytime. Just goes to show that we can be sucked up into the abyss and reduced to nothing-ness in no time. Donno why Nature has specific location in mind...especially after the same region was crushed about one & a half year ago. Is there any patterns in this? Is there any reason ...for this kind of destruction? May be that's how it's meant to be. Imagine the home taken away in an instant, the closed ones buried so fast that even their memories go with them forever; leaving suffering at its worst. Such thoughts send shivers throughout the body.

Spared are the ones who are fortunate, people like us. Thank that FORCE for not using Its wrath on mortals like us. Just live for the moment, and hope that we never experience Nature's fury. It's the scariest thing in the world.

LIVE IN PEACE, AS LONG YOU ARE ALLOWED TO ;).